Three Simple Rules
If you even walk into
a Methodist church you will discover that most Methodists are a bunch of “do
gooders”. John Wesley and his brother
Charles really founded the Methodist Church in England in the 18th
Century and from the start it was a “do good” movement. Wesley preached on street corners while
emphasizing that Christians should give to the poor, visit the sick and live
humbly.
And John Wesley
passed down his Three Simple Rules for living and Methodists often quote
these rules and try to live by them. Here
they are: Three Simple Rules 1) Do no harm.
2) Do good of every possible sort.
3) Stay in love with God. Just
three simple rules! Sounds easy to
follow, doesn’t it?
The first rule “Do no
harm” sounds easy. But watch out! The temptation to harm others is ever
near. You can harm another persons’
reputation by gossiping about them or passing on rumors. Or hurt a persons’ feelings by not treating
them with respect. And it’s so easy to
dislike a person and harm them just with your attitude.
Of course you can do
great harm by bearing false witness against another or stealing from them. And
then there is murder and adultery! There
is a sentence in the Lords’ Prayer that
begs God to help us resist temptation and evil. “Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us
from evil.” (Matt.6:13a) Not only should we try to do no harm but we
should try to stop others from doing harm if we can. We can not follow rule
number one “Do no harm” without Gods’ help.
The second rule is “Do
good of every possible sort. ” First of
all, in order to do good one needs to slow down. Slow down and live life in the present. If you rush through life, people will be
invisible to you – you will be blind to their needs. The story goes that for forty years a woman
named Grace ministered to street people in her city and made a big difference
in the quality of their lives. And when
she was asked what her secret was in being able to change so many lives, she
replied that the secret was that she “walked slowly.”
In order to do good a
person also has to care. If we don’t
really care about another person in need then we will walk on by and look the
other way. One of the seven deadly sins
is the sin of sloth or apathy – the sin of not caring enough to do what we can
do if we have the opportunity to right a wrong.
Many years ago (1964) newspapers all over the United States printed a sad and disturbing story
about a young woman in New York
named Kitty Genovese who was murdered by a man with a knife. This knife attack
took place in the yard outside of an apartment complex with thirty apartment
windows overlooking the crime area. And
it took forty-five minutes for the attacker to slowly kill the young woman with
his knife as many folks watched.
As the attacker stabbed
Kitty again and again she screamed and ran crying out for help while many
watched from the safety of their apartment windows. She rushed frantically from
door to door knocking and begging for someone – anyone - to open and let her inside
to safety. But for forty-five minutes the crazed man chased this girl stabbing
her again and again as groups watched from their apartment windows.
Not one of the many
onlookers bothered to get involved. Not
one person opened their door to save the desperate girl from her attacker. Were they afraid they might be hurt as well? Not
one of those watching even took the time to call the police. Finally after time passed and she had been
stabbed more than fifty times, Kitty dropped on the cold pavement covered in
blood and died alone while people all around her watched.
For months after
Kitty’s murder there were angry outcries and questions by the public and by
newscasters asking how this could have happened in America ! How could a group of bystanders watch for 45
minutes and do nothing while a girl in their midst was being murdered. Were these people human?
We all believe that we are safer when we are
surrounded by a group. Since most of the
people we know are caring folk, we assume that this general goodwill would
cause persons in a group to try to help a person in trouble. And most of the time that is what
happens. Nearly always good people are
nearby to lend a hand when a person is in trouble. That is why the public was
so shocked when they heard Kitty’s story.
But I believe that the
folks who watched from their windows as Kitty died didn’t care enough to risk
their own comfort. And not caring
(Sloth) is considered to be one of the “Seven Deadly Sins”. One of the definitions of sloth is “the
inability or unwillingness to act or care.”
The Seven Deadly Sins are: 1)
Pride, 2) Greed,
3) Lust, 4) Anger, 5) Gluttony,
6) Envy, 7) Sloth. Actually there is no formal list of the
“seven deadly sins” in the Bible. But
these seven sins are denounced everywhere in Scripture. Pope Gregory (540-604 A.D.) put the list
together for Christians back in the sixty century. We can pray and ask God to
give us a caring heart.
In order to do good a
person needs to have confidence in God.
Loving God is the bedrock of doing good.
God is the source of love and when a person turns from God and chooses
evil ways, the flow of love into that persons’ life could become unsteady.
And that brings us to
rule number three: “Stay in love with God.”
Without staying in love with God we cannot follow the first two rules. Without
God in the picture we can sometimes throw up our hands and give up on a
person. But what seems impossible with
us is always possible with God. God can
open our eyes and show us that He can restore the person that has gone down a
wrong path. And God can give us the
vision and strength to keep loving those who in our own strength we find hard
to love.
When Jesus was on
earth the Pharisees asked Him which commandment was the most important one in
the Law. And Jesus answered: “You shall
love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and with all
your mind. This is the first and
greatest commandment. And the second is
like it. You shall love your neighbor as
yourself.” (Mathew 22:37-39)
So Jesus is saying
that the most important thing that we can do in our life is to love God, the
God who loves us and gave Himself for us.
The God who created us and redeems us.
The God who is there for us, answers our prayers, watches over us, leads
us and guides us. The God who waits for
us to come back to Him. If we try to
obey Rule number 3 the others will fall into place.
It’s easy to become
lukewarm in our love for God. To follow
Him from a distance. But Scripture says
that God is disappointed with “lukewarm” love.
He wants us to love Him with everything we’ve got. Let’s do it.
Let’s stay in love with God.