Love your Enemies and Turn the Other Cheek
Jesus knew that soon He would be leaving his followers and
going back to Heaven. He had so much
more to tell them, but they still didn’t understand many of lessons He had
already given them. So He knew they were
not ready for more.
These are Jesus’
words to his beloved followers. “I have
much more to say to you, but you cannot bear these teachings now. But when He, the Spirit of Truth comes to
you, He will guide you into all truth.
He will not speak on His own: He will speak only what He hears, and He
will tell you what is yet to come. The
Holy Spirit will bring glory to Me by taking from what is mine and making it
known to you. “(John 16:12-14)
Jesus’ teachings are for all of His followers, past and present
and future. But we, like his followers
back then, cannot appreciate some of His teachings without Gods’ help. The Father takes what is Christs’ and gives
it to us – but we sometimes miss the meaning of the spiritual mysteries we are
given. Seeds of truth falling into the
soil of our hearts but not sprouting!
And precious spiritual treasures given to us for our joy and peace that
we are not able to fully understand!
These teachings of Jesus are spiritually discerned and
cannot be taken in by our earthly minds and hearts. But God gives us the Help we need. He gives us the Spirit of Truth, the Holy
Spirit, to open our hearts so that we can understand these deep truths. And we must listen for His still small Voice
in our lives.
We will go over several of Jesus’ teachings today. But if we do not completely understand them,
remember Jesus knows that. And He also
promises the Holy Spirit to us to help open our minds and hearts. Today we will briefly go over two of Jesus’
teachings that some find difficult to follow.
First, Jesus teaches us to love our enemies. Let’s listen to His words. “You have heard that you should love your
neighbor and hate your enemy. But I tell
you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be
sons and daughters of your Father in heaven.
He causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on
the righteous and the unrighteous. If
you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing
that? And if you greet only your
relatives, what are you doing more than others?
Do not even pagans do that? Be
perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:43-48)
Jesus is telling us here that it is the great duty of each
Christian to love her or his enemies. To
be children of our Father in heaven who loves and gives to those who oppose
Him. We must have compassion for those who ridicule us Jesus says. Speak well of them and bless them when they
curse us! Do good to those who hate us! And pray for those that despitefully use us
and persecute us. When Jesus warned that
some of His teachings would be difficult for us to understand, maybe this is
one of them.
It goes against our natural instincts to love our enemies,
doesn’t it? But Jesus promises to send
His Spirit to help us understand this teaching and also to give us the power to
obey it. The power to be free to love and forgive our enemies. As children of the loving Father we are to be
loving like Him and to not get caught up in the cruel prison of hating and
fighting and insulting others. We are
not to play the world’s games. And we are never to look for revenge. We are to give our enemies to God and pray
that He will put our relationship with them back together. And we are to walk in love and forgiveness. As His children, God calls us to this
freedom!
Along with this teaching on loving our enemies, Jesus also gives
us another difficult teaching. He tells us that when we are slapped on one
cheek we are to turn the other cheek! Let’s listen to His words. ” You have heard it
said, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. But I tell you, do not resist an evil
person. If someone strikes you on one
cheek, turn the other cheek also. And if
someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as
well. If someone forces you to go one
mile, go with him two miles. Give to the
one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from
you.” (Matthew 5:38-42)
I do not believe that Jesus is telling us to stand aside and
allow criminals to rob or murder us or family members or others. Scripture tells us to resist evil doers. God
helped the nation of Israel fight to protect their land from enemies. There are times when we have to fight against
aggressors, false teachers, murderers or robbers. Every nation needs an army to protect their very
existence. So this is not what Jesus meant here!
But many major wars that spread over large areas have
started out from small disagreements. One country envying another over something
they had that the other didn’t have. Or
one group insulting or taking advantage of the other. And all of this warring causing much
devastation and misery to many innocent people. Jesus calls us to make a treaty with the
aggressor if possible. To negotiate before going to war. To do what we can to
keep the peace. Turn the other cheek.
Speak kindly and respectfully to the enemy. Stop an
argument from growing into something much bigger and more deadly.
This command also goes against our natural instincts. Fighting is so much easier than forgiving. We
do not want to appear weak to our enemies. Our reputations are so important to
us. We have been taught to fight for our
“honor” and stand up for our rights. And
again Jesus is commanding us to leave all this behind and go down a different
road. To not to play the world’s games
and not cut our enemies down to defend our own reputation. To let Jesus be our strong
defense. If we get down in the dirt and
fight with our enemy in a war or the courts or elsewhere, we will lose our joy
and our peace and our loving spirit. We
can become hateful and bitter, unforgiving and maybe even hard hearted. Our Father has better things that that for
us.
Without the Holy Spirit’s help and guidance these teachings of
Jesus are almost impossible to follow.
But if we live with openness and humility to Christ’s Spirit and try to
obey and allow Him to guide us, we can take this journey of learning to love
the enemy step by step. We are to open our
hearts to all God has for us. Let’s live
the good life.