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Precious Gift is Waiting for You
Jesus promises His followers a precious gift – the gift of
peace. “My peace I give you, my peace I
leave for you, not as the world gives, give I unto you….” (John 14:27) The gift of peace is also one of the gifts
of the Holy Spirit that is promised to believers. And all through the Bible God promises peace
to those who love Him. But when darkness
moves in to surround our souls and pain and trouble threaten to harm our lives,
can we still hold on to the peace that has been given to us?
So how do we hold on to this promised peace anyway? There are such scary things going on in our
world that it is no wonder we often become worried and anxious. But God tells us not to worry but to change
our thought patterns. Change our thought
patterns? God cares about our thoughts? Scripture
says: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind…” (Romans 12:2) New thoughts come from new
perspectives. We don’t have to live by
the world’s fearful perspectives since we have been born again into the kingdom
of heaven and have been given new perspectives.
So how do we break old thought habits and start living into
our new perspectives of hope and trust in God?
First of all, we need to know Gods’ Word. Isaiah 55:10-11 says that when Gods’ Word is
sent out it does not return empty. In
other words, it is powerful and does a job – makes a difference wherever it
goes. So we need to let Gods’ Word do a
job in our thought lives - think over life situations and problems with Scripture
to guide our thought process. And stand on (believe) the promises in the Bible
that are there for us. Allow God’s Word
to be a light to guide our thoughts.
In His Word God promises to take care of us, forgive our
sins, answer our prayers, and gives us victory in the end. He promises to make every situation work out
(eventually) to the good for us if we love Him. (Rom 8:28) When we look at our
problems with God in the picture, we get a new perspective. We are to exchange
the old ways of worrying for the new ways of trusting in Christ. We are to look at life through Gods’ truths. Our thought patterns are all important. Scripture
says: “As a person thinks in his heart, so is he.” (Proverbs 23:7)
Scripture teaches that with Gods’ help we can accept or
refuse thoughts – choose constructive or destructive thoughts. Instead of being
held hostage by old hopeless thought patterns, we can learn new hopeful ones. To have peace in our lives we will need to try
to refuse sinful thoughts and meditate on Biblical truths. Scripture says: “We demolish arguments and
every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take
captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” (2 Cor. 10:5)
Isn’t this scripture asking us to take every thought we have
and make it be obedient to Christ? How
do we do that? This Biblical request is
an invitation for us to try to follow –however imperfectly. As we try to obey, we may take two steps
forward and one step backward. We may
fail as many times as we succeed at this.
But we are to keep on trying –
keep on working to make our thought life obedient to Him. Let’s see how it
might work out in real life.
We once knew a Christian man – let’s call him Paul – who
tried (imperfectly) to respond to his troubles by looking at them with the new
perspective – the perspective of seeing things through the truths in Scripture. Paul was a pastor and his small church was
not able to pay him very much. He and
his wife Sue and their family lived in a small apartment and he drove an old
car. Paul’s wealthy parents were
disappointed that Paul had become a pastor.
They had wanted him to become a successful businessman and make money. The
parents were embarrassed that their son drove an old car. Year after year Paul’s mother criticized him
for being a “failure”, causing Paul to criticize his mother back for being so
critical of him in the first place. These
hurtful exchanges stole the peace from Paul’s life and kept him irritated.
When Paul and Sue’s children grew up, Paul’s mother
announced that she and Paul’s father were changing their will and leaving their
wealth to the grandchildren only. They
would skip over Paul and Sue since they were losers anyway. Several of the
children began to agree with Paul’s mother.
Since Paul and Sue did not have a big bank account, they were not important.
Again, Paul was hurt and angry. He tried harder to impress his mother and
please his children –but to no avail. Anger and frustration left Paul with no
peace.
Time passed by and
one of the grown children stopped speaking to Paul and Sue. Paul parents seemed to encourage the son in
his decision to cut off his parents. Desperation set in for Paul and Sue as they
tried again and again but failed to regain contact with their grown son. Up to this point Paul still viewed these
family problems through the eyes of this world. Anger
and bitterness took over his thoughts concerning his parents and son and he had
no peace.
More years passed with the son and his family hardly
speaking to Paul and Sue. The devastated
couple began praying and asking God to change their son and restore the
relationship they had once had with him. Paul and Sue knew that it is Gods’
will that families have good relationships, so they believed that God would
answer their prayers (eventually) and that their son would come back and have a
relationship with them someday. This
gave them some peace – even if this prayer wouldn’t be answered until the
distant future. They could count on God
to answer this prayer and they clung to this hope for their family. This gave them some of the peace Jesus
promised.
Gradually Paul realized that the people who hurt his
feelings– his parents and his son – were not the real ones that were against
him. Ephesians 6:12 reads: “For our
struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the
authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual
forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” This was perhaps a trial that he must bear. This helped Paul have some peace and stop
blaming his family and himself. He
acknowledged that the problem was over his head and he kept giving the
situation to God whenever it bothered him. This gave him some peace.
Paul and Sue often cried on each other’s shoulder about
their family problems. Sue would remind
Paul about the latest hurtful remark from the mother or Paul would count out
the number of years it had been since they had last seen their son. Dwelling on the negative seemed to keep Paul
and Sue feeling hopeless about a solution.
But one day Paul read Philippians 4:8 and he suggested that he and Sue
start thinking and talking about the good things about the mother and son. And they would latch on to the good news that
they could trust God to answer their prayers for reconciliation with family. Playing down their problems and concentrating
on Gods’ faithfulness and the good in their lives would help give them peace. And it did.
The scripture that Paul quoted was: “Whatever things are
true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are
pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there
is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy, think on these
things.” (Philippians 4:8) As Paul and Sue
reminded one another about the good times they had had with the mother in the
past and the good qualities that their son had they felt more hopeful. And they continued to remind one another that
God was taking care of everything.
Paul gave his anger to God and started doing what he could
to love his rejecting family. And God
gave him a new view of things – a new perspective. Paul could see that God would take care of
everything. Paul could let go and have
some peace. He remembered the words of
Romans 12:18: “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably
with all men.” He promised himself and God that he would appreciate the good in
his mother and refuse to let her criticisms make him angry. This resolve gave him peace where before he
had allowed the criticisms to keep him upset.
Eventually Paul’s parents grew old and needed help. Paul and
Sue were there loving them and taking care of their needs. Paul’s mother began to mellow, and she
complained because her criticisms didn’t bother Paul anymore. And then finally the
son began to reach out to Paul and Sue after thirty years of rejection.
Surely God will finish the healing of Paul and Sues’ family
ties, if not on earth then definitely in heaven. It took time for Paul and Sue to learn to trust
God. Time to “take every thought captive
and make it obedient to Christ.” (2 Cor.10:5) At first, they would feel
helpless when they couldn’t solve their problems themselves. But finally, they learned to believe that God
was working behind the scenes. And then because
they trusted God, they had peace in the midst of their trouble.
Without trust in God, Paul and Sue could not have struggled
through this long trial without giving up.
And without trust in God we can not go though our trials without giving
up either. Because we serve a mighty God,
we never have to give up on anything that is good in our lives. Let’s get our thoughts in line with Gods’
promises – His truths. And we will enjoy
the good life – and we will have peace in the midst of our troubles